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Originally Posted by maggiebeaver
Hii! I'm a PNM for the University of Arizona in the fall. I'm in a bit of a pickle because my mom, and two sisters have all done greek life there and they all ended up in different sororities. They all tell me that I should go with my gut but I feel pressured and a little biased to the 3 sororities, because Ive seen their houses and know which sororities are "cool".
On top of all of it, my sister will be a junior there this fall and we are absolute best friends. I've secretly wanted to be in her sorority but recently I've realized how Ive lived in her shadow my entire life (same sports, same clubs, same activities, same grades, same teachers) and Im definitely not sure about how I would feel if I stayed in her shadow when I get to college.
ALSO currently my cover photo is of my family and my sister is wearing her letters, is this bad for rush?
Thanks!!
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Prediction: Anyone and everyone who comments on this post will tell you that all of the sororities at the University of Arizona are "cool", and you should keep an open mind to all of them.
Go through recruitment and see what YOU like. Being a legacy to 3 groups will definitely help you, but don't let that pressure you into joining one group over another. Meet the members of each chapter, get to know them, and aim for the one that you like after that. You will have to spend time with the members nearly every day, and you want to make sure you're comfortable with them. Getting along with your sisters is key
Good luck!