TonyB06 ain't got no sense!
Diamond Girl, I spend more time with the personality and lifestyle stuff. The physical stuff is obvious for me and it is easy for me to figure out who I don't find attractive and therefore I don't even waste a first date with a man who doesn't have my physical desires.
It is the personality and lifestyle stuff that are more easily hidden and/or you don't know it is a deal breaker until you come across it. If I think I will spend a lot of time rolling my eyes, arguing, or even trying to change something about a man, I know that is a deal breaker and I need to move on.
