Quote:
Originally Posted by Signed up user
I wouldn't have any problems that you listed above, I did my research. My question was not about the morals of the whole thing, just whether it can be done. And no other avenues are just, for a lack of a better word, lame. I prefer to be friends with young guys who know how to party but also have a sense of a brotherhood.
Nothing creepy about a 26 year old guy with a 21 yr old girl, I have met plenty of couples like this.
|
We get that you wouldn't have any problems with any of this. You don't seem to get that members of chapters, whose decision it would be to offer a bid, and members of sororities with which they socialize very well may have a problem with it. They might not, but I certainly wouldn't count on it. That's leaving aside the question of whether, as a grad student, you would be eligible to receive a bid to start with.
And if you think a fraternity-like sense of brotherhood is impossible to find in "the real world," you haven't looked hard enough.