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Why would someone feel 'cheap' or lose 'self-respect' after a one-night stand?
Chances are, this would only occur if the person looked for more out of the hookup than what it was. Also likely would be fear of being labelled a 'slut', which is a strong fear for most women.
It would seem to me that damasa's reasons make sense for him, to my mind, and maybe I can even see where h2oot is coming from (well, maybe) - the difference is, blaine is saying what he feels and why he does what he does, while h2oot appears to be making a value judgement on someone else based upon her particular feelings - please correct me if I'm wrong, I'm just trying to interpret "Barf".
Either way - I'm curious to know: why is there no way that a person (specifically, you) could be attracted to someone in a purely sexual way, and simply desire sexual gratification from them, for one night?
It seems to me that enjoyment of the moment could be attained, if one could get past any hang-ups surrounding sexuality (assuming safety issues are addressed, etc) - but that's a male point of view. What am I not seeing here? ie what's the other point of view?
-RC
--PS - damasa, bad pun buddy - I loved it
Last edited by KSig RC; 07-24-2002 at 11:44 PM.
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