up until yesterday I was under the impression that hazing doesn't really happen as much as some people believe it does. I was never hazed, and so I just kind of assumed that it was more of a guy thing, and mostly sororities didn't do it, but I got into a lengthy conversation with someone on GC last night about her hazing experience, which maybe makes me think that it happens but my eyes just weren't open to it. Sometimes we don't see things that we don't want to.
My suggestion would be to ask some questions about being a new member, and listen to the answers very carefully that may give you some indication as to what the new member, or pledge period will be like.
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