SoRHOr bluethunder, I totally feel you on the individuality. Sorors tease me about the bright red hair, but no one dogs me out for my choice. I'm always allowed to be my colorful self.
There are so many benefits of being a Sigma, but my favorite is meeting a soror and knowing her heart right away. It takes a special woman to be a Sigma, and that connection is automatic from the first hug.