Three sororities with 50 people each is NOT a medium sized school. It is a small school. Not everyone who rushes at a small system like this will find a group they fit with. It's not like a chapter of 300 where just by law of averages, you will find SOMEONE in every chapter you can relate to.
That being said, "the biggest turnout ever" had ZERO to do with you getting cut. It's not like they decide the spring before "oh, for next fall's rush, only 30 girls can get bids." Bids given = number of girls rushing ÷ number of sororities. PERIOD. The only time that doesn't apply is when the school applies an arbitrary membership cap and that is very rare and not advocated by national panhellenic.
Go ahead and rush again and keep an open mind to all three groups. What did you mean by you could attend only one group's cob events? If it was a scheduling conflict, make sure you convey that to the two groups whose events you didn't attend.
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Last edited by 33girl; 04-26-2014 at 04:13 AM.
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