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Autism has such a vast spectrum that I'm not going to criticize any group that is sincerely trying to help. Just in my own narrow experience, a dear friend has a sister with Aspergers, and she fits the "different" paradigm. She's highly intelligent, holds down a job, but she did have to be taught some things that most people just instinctively know. On the other hand, I have another dear friend who has two sons at the low end of the spectrum, who will never be able to live on their own, care for themselves, or really much of anything. I don't know if even their loving mother would consider their condition as merely being different in the same way the woman with Aspergers is. Their care does involve the diapering of teenagers and helping them to eat. I wouldnt wish that kind of life condition on anyone.

I think if there's a way that the lower end of the spectrum can be prevented, then science should work to find it. That is in no way, shape, or form intended as criticism of the Temple Grandins of the world or a lack of appreciation for their contributions.