I definately think that if you are this interested in rush, and you would actually be willing to go through rush again, then you should give it a try. I also agree that you should be totally up front and honest about why you have rushed so many times. It will impress sisters that you are honest.
Some other suggestions
1. Wear something, a necklace or a purse that makes you stand out so you are easily remembered. (it's hard to keep track of so many people)
2. Keep an open mind. People and things do change. And just because you see yourself in a chapter doesn't mean that is definately the one for you. If you went in with a closed mind last time, you weren't really giving the others a fair chance.
3. Remember that with the sororities that do keep you that they see something special in you, so look to see if you can find something special in them.
Plus with the age thing, many people pledge later. I had a new member once that was 23, and she was only around for a semester but she had a profound impact on my chapter.
It's not how long you are with them, it's what you do once you are in.
I wish you the best of luck, and seriously mean to keep an open mind and heart.
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