Emoore, if you are an alumna (the term is not "alumni"), then whether the chapter ignores you or embraces you is irrelevant. You no longer are eligible to participate in he collegiate chapter. You can, however, participate in the local alumnae (plural of "alumna") chapter if there is one. If you are an alumna, then you don't need to drop. You have, in effect, graduated to post-collegiate status.
If, during your time away, you had been notified to pay dues or take an action on your memebership and did nothing, your membership might have been terminated. It is important that you speak with the chapter advisor to confirm your status. Then it is possible to determine next steps.
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