[honeychile]

I had heard of this before, but only since I moved to Chicago have I seen it in action. It may be because I've always belonged to somewhat large churches, where you couldn't possibly ask everyone at church to a wedding. Now, it's considered rude if you don't do so, and sometimes, the bride & groom have a second, family only reception later.

Now that I think of it, I know that it's done in Washington State, too. Maybe it's a small church thing?