well I think it is important that you encourage your brother,but I know what it feels like to be legacy and your sibling trying to make all of the connections for you. My sister is a Delta and when she started pulling strings and stuff I appreciated it, but it doesn't feel like being able to earn it. I didn't even want to be a Delta. I am a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority,Inc.. So basically let your brother go to school and feel the fraternities out because you might be pulling the wrong strings. Make sure you let your brother know you will support him in any fraternity he decides to enter but let him know he'll appreciate it more if he gets it by himself and works for it. This way it will be an experience never forgotten.
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