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Originally Posted by Jp685
And I don't know how to fix it. Apparently his brothers don't have a problem with me, but as a whole the fraternity will not mix or do anything with my sorority. They hate my sorority because 2 years ago we had less than amazing sisters that I was not around for and apparently the now alumnae left a bad impression on them. So we haven't done anything with my boyfriend's fraternity for over a year and it sucks. I love my boyfriend and it hurts when their fraternity chooses another sorority to do events with, when they do stuff with the same sororities all the time but never us.
I'm allowed to bring some of my sisters to their house parties and they don't care, but the brothers won't go out of their way to invite my sisters to their parties. And other than house parties we don't do anything together. I'm just wondering how our sorority can show them that we are a completely different chapter with a bunch of cool girls they haven't even gotten the chance to meet yet. If we ask to do a social, the answer will be no. I just don't know what I can do. I mean it seems stupid they hate us over how a couple of our sisters acted years ago. I wasn't even there for it and more than half of their chapter wasn't there for it either. So I don't understand why they still don't want to mix with us.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated  |
First off, you should stop bashing your alumnae in public.
Second of all, what caused the bad impression? Are we talking, like, the fraternity planned a cool mixer and your sorority barely showed up? Or are we talking, like, the guys didn't think your sorority was hot enough? Because the two problems are distinctly different.