Non-members should not be privy to the business of AKA, especially little children. I attended Boule and on my plane ride back home I was informed by the daughter (a high school junior) of a graduate Soror that not only was she going to be an AKA because of her mom and the whole legacy clause thing but she had input on what my sorority should do about our business, the problems with our election process and she discussed several other issues. Now you already know I had to shut her down in the nicest way I could without pulling her lil but in the cut.. anyway I was concerned that she would tell her mother. She informed me that she reads the IVY LEAF all the time and has seen lots of "stuff" that is suppose to be secret. Her words exactly.
WTF!!! My "stuff" is on lock down and my husband does not even glance its way and if I had a daughter no matter what I took a vow to protect AKA's secrets and I would not tell anyone.