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Assuming that the first time was not alcohol or drug induced. The second time around may not be as good as the first. Sex isn't necessarily the best every time it happens. Sometimes it is better than others. It changes as you learn each others likes and dislikes. I have a friend and we were on again, off again, 'porkin' buddies' for eight years. There was never any committment, or threat of it, and at one time there was a 4 year strech of no sex. We met a couple of times around Christmas for dinner when we were both in the same city, but for various reasons nothing happened. Then we found time to meet a few more times. As you get to know someone better the sex does get better and it got progressively better for us because we got to know each others likes and dislikes. Maybe you got lucky the first time, now it is time to work on it and get to know each other better. I must say though, that sex is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's still pretty good.
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