I also agree with Dzsaigirl. I don't mean to jump to conclusions, but if drinking means that much to him, did you ever think that maybe he might have a slight problem with alcohol. Me and my bf used to have the problem that he only wanted to go out to clubs that he knew I couldn't get into b/c I wasn't 21, but after I turned 21 in April I diliberately go out without him to return the favor