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Sciencewoman gives sound advice about being straightforward with your inquiry and visitng the chapter of ABC at your new school. There are as many tales of affiliation as there are circumstnaces. Here is one that I know (for comparison):

In a new member class after mine was a cute, effervescent new member. She decided to transfer to another university in the region that had many chapters including one of ours. She depledged ABC and went through recruitment at her new university and had one of those golden recruitments. She did not pledge ABC but instead pledged DEF. DEF was the oddball chapter at our university so many of us were shocked. (We did not have websites or social media, so we didn't know about DEF at school #2.) Later when we visited school #2, we found that DEF at school #2 was more like ABC at school #1 than ABC at school #2 was (and almost nothing like DEF at school #1). So her choice then made sense to us. The takeaway is that chapter personalities can vary among schools. At your new school, your NPC may be a good fit for you or not. Your visiting that chapter can help you with your current decision.