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Originally Posted by calgirl15
And now they act like nothing has changed between us and act like my best friend.
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Others have covered the "get involved in other activities" angle very well. I will point out that I wasn't Greek in college*, and I had a ball and was plenty busy. I had a job, did research projects in my major, took lots of interesting classes, partied, made friends, and volunteered. Of course every campus is different, but I suspect you can do any or all of the above on your campus without being Greek.
However, I wanted to note your statement above.
They didn't not extend you a bid because they hated you and wanted to humiliate you. Lots of sororities, for whatever reason, can't extend bids to PNMs that they like very much. It wasn't necessarily a rejection of you as a person because you weren't worthy of being their friend. According to their specific words, there was a cutoff you didn't quite make. That doesn't automatically mean that none of them want to be friends with you, or that there's something wrong with you.
You likely lost at a numbers game. Don't assign more meaning to that than it deserves.
(*I belong to an NPHC that I joined after college, and I knew during college that I had that option available to me, so I didn't spend a lot of energy on it.)