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Originally Posted by paigeh93
So, it's officially been past 24 hours and I didn't get anything from ABC. I've really been trying to have a positive attitude but after being shot down twice, I do feel a bit bummed tonight. I really loved ABC and thought it all went so well. I keep going over Monday and Thursday and can't think of what went wrong.
I have a week before my next COB event with another sorority so, guess I'll just have to take my chances there.
Thanks for all of the support, it has really helped me with this process.
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Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna
Please don't worry too much about it. COB events are often very, very loose and unscripted. Things change at the last minute or get postponed.
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What AnchorAlumna said.
Don't panic! It's only been 24 hours. Do you talk to each one of your friends every single day? Probably not. A day is not a long enough amount of time to think that the chapter has forgotten all about you.
Maybe they were meeting with other PNMs tonight. Maybe they had a sisterhood night and decided to not think about recruitment for 48 hours. Maybe they don't plan to have any further COB events and they held membership selection meetings tonight, and they're distributing bids this weekend. And hey, it's Friday… maybe they all just did their own thing, went out to parties/bars, studied, or did whatever college students usually do on a Friday night.
I know you're freaking out because you've been turned down a couple times, but don't assume that the worst has occurred because of what's happened in the past. Keep your chin up and think positive!