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I agree ... we can't have it all ways!
It seems to me that nowadays, there are men who don't want their wives to have to work, and women who don't want to work. Some men want to stay home with the kids, and some women want their husbands to do the raising. Some men and women don't want any kids. Logically, if you want to stay at home with the kids, don't marry someone who doesn't want any ... or someone who thinks you need to go back to work as soon as maternity leave is over. If you don't want kids, don't marry someone who is longing for a full baseball team.
I think it's a great thing we have these choices now. It does make dating more confusing, though, because you can no longer assume that your future hubbie will bring home the dough while you raise 2.5 kids (that .5 kid has to be ugly!) You have to figure out what you want, and is it compatible with what your partner wants ... No wonder we're waiting longer to marry!
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