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It's ok to rush a second time, and if any of the chapters offer informal rush this spring or next fall, you can do that too. But you need to spend some real time with yourself figuring out what went wrong. There was SOMETHING that kept the sororities from wanting you enough to keep you high on their lists. Were you dressed right? What were your conversations really like? Were you loud, rude, boring, weird? Did you say stuff that you thought was really funny that in retrospect was creepy? Did you smell bad? How are your grades? Your extra-curriculars? Realistically you probably won't have any friends tell you the truth about any even glaring flaws, so you're probably going to have to figure these things out on your own. But deep down, you probably know what the problem is. Then, you can start to work with your sorority friends to see about improving in those areas.
But in short, if you don't change something, you'll get the same result.
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"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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