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That is a hard situation but I would ask yourself a few questions in weighing this decision. Certainly a bunch of strangers online tell you yes you should do this or no. But if I were in your shoes I would consider these things.
Can you find any positive traits about the sorority?
Aside from making friends, was there anything about the sorority's overall mission that spoke to you, in your desire to join?
Have you tried to branch out and talk to the other members outside of the party setting?
I would look at things beyond just the immediate issues and see if these issues are going to persist in the long-term? I wish you the best in whatever you decide.
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