[33girl]

I don't know how you know, but ok :-)

MP - sometimes it's hard for a colony to gel. Women have been picked for membership who are vety different from each other, but that's partly WHY they have been picked - the sorority doesn't want a chapter full of clones!! I would try talking to your colony development director or whatever they call the alum in your organization who's basically in charge of watching over the colony. You may not be the only girl with concerns and this is something the national headquarters wants to nip in the bud so they can have a healthy chapter. Good luck!