See, I wanted to hear from women, 'cause ya'll know the score!!! I agree that there is always some sort of emotional bond (unless the guy is a total a**hole and just using the girl), but I think that for the most part, just like in movies, the sequel is never as good as the original (except for Godfather Part II which was just as good as the original Godfather, but Godfather III was awful!)
So it's better to talk about it, and who knows, maybe there could be a friendship or something (But as Billy Crystal said in "When Harry Met Sally, "Men and women can't be friends, cause the sex thing keeps getting in the way")...
And by the way, I would be hard pressed to find ANY guy (even James) who has NEVER had a bad session. HE might think that it was good, but ask his partner and...