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Maybe you should stop assuming people are talking about you or shunning you on purpose. I find that the majority of the time that people that have these complaints are generally imagining the situation. If you have low self esteem or don't feel comfortable around people, you need to work on that rather than push it onto others. If you have had a run in with a sister and now think that everyone is against you, get to the bottom of it. You are still probably exaggerating it all but you shouldn't let it fester.
Basically, you don't become someone's sister just by sharing a letter shirt. You become sisters by sharing experiences. You have to be there on a regular basis providing support, not just asking for it. You have to. BE a sister, not just expect others to be YOUR sister. This all takes work. If you go in and try to work at making these relationships and build a place for yourself in this chapter, you won't regret it. If you decide to leave, you very well may.
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