Thanks Pollywogg...I knew someone out there HAD to agree some sort of way with me...and TKE... I Just think its a matter of respect, people will notice 50 guys having a good time in a bar if they aren't wearing their letters too, I'm just suggesting you try it and I understand that thats just how your campus is and nobody is going to c hange it...well it takes one person to start the process of change and people will follow, remember sometimes change is a good thing...And no i didn't talk to your founders, but I was just assuming your founders had somewhat of the same ideals in mind that my sorority's founders had...so...I know that we are based on values and things of that nature...and whether or not we go to a bar in our letters is not the worry of most of the sisters when promoting the sorority...we rely on doing things that will better us...not things that will eventually be the demise of us. And I'm sorry that the sorority girls on your campus are like that...You win some , you lose some...but please don't stereotype because we're not all like that.
Thanks for sharing your opinion with me.