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Old 01-23-2014, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Chrisfuller23 View Post
They should take you if they feel you click with them. I know my roommate last semester (then a 7th sem Sr) got bid to a fraternity, and is now a full member with them this semester.
There are no "shoulds" in sorority recruitment. That is not sound advice, even if it is well-meaning. Writing this for anyone in the future who comes across this thread.

OP, ask your sorority friends to be honest with you about why they are saying your chances are slim to none. And if you are strong enough to handle rejection, then enter recruitment with the mindset that "what will be, will be". Otherwise you are going to wonder "what if…?"
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