And that is a good point, midwesterner1's daughter probably personally knew several sorority members when she went through a second time. If your daughter didn't succeed this time and she doesn't with DPhiE (or isn't interested in going that way), she should work at building relationships with sorority women (through on campus activities, in class, study groups, etc., not via stalking
). It makes all the difference when you're talking about pre-existing friendships and the hordes of rushees.