|
Irish pipes, oh I remember so well- the pain and heartache, but I am hoping to get the word out and let others learn from my experience that it all can work out. The unhoused chapters are filled with fabulous girls, they aren't filled with nobodies they are filled with phenomenal some bodies.
The bottom line is that it is NOT okay to bash any sorority or any sorority member in an open forum. Trust me when I read that "theta phi and the other unhoused sorority and the new one coming are just a club" and "I feel sorry for those girls" I too showed emotion and got very angry - how dare anyone?
No one can be expected to know my daughters experience that is why I am trying to let you moms know that it CAN be okay! I promise! IU is trying to include more girls and someone has to be willing to help with the process. I can't get across how great it has been for my daughter. They truly have not skipped a beat!
NO MATTER HOW GREAT THESE GIRLS THINK THEY ARE - the bottom line is 18 houses turned them down if they were lucky enough to get three!
We just need to stop being negative toward girls and sororities many know nothing about. Save the sympathy for the 1000 girls who get nothing or sit at little 500 and "wish" they would have.
|