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It just makes no sense to me. Everyone wants every girl to get a bid? Where does that happen? Second, I'm defending the idea that something that is competitive is not easy and not always unfair. Does everyone get THE job? Does everyone get into pt school, or the graduate program they want? No-it's competitive, selective, and makes something more desire able and something special. If you want to read it as "I don't think your experience was special" then that's your choice. But it is real life. If all that matters is everyone gets a spot then girls have to go somewhere where they just sign up and get assigned a spot. If there are 2,000 girls and 2,000 spaces it still wouldn't happen bc moms are saying their daughters don't want the unhoused chapters bc they're not "good enough" and yet they want a place for everyone. What they are saying is they want every girl to get what they consider to be a "good house". Well, if they think it's a "good house", chances are so do lots of other girls and so it's competitive and harder to get in. If it wasn't would their daughters want to be in it so badly? If every freshman that decided they wanted to be an ABC, could easily just sign up and become one would it be coveted? I just don't get the mentality of "all girls should get in if they want". That's unrealistic and impossible anywhere for anything.
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