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Originally Posted by Mom64
And while you criticize a rushee who has met maybe 10% of the chapter for making a conclusion, why can no one admit that having only 10% of their chapter making a conclusion about a rushee any different. And all of these sororities who do not invite certain PNMs back, isn't it because they feel they are not the right fit or not good enough for them,why do the PNMs get criticized for feeling this way about certain houses?
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Actually, no. It's not the same. A chapter is told they have to cut a certain number of girls, but that number doesn't necessarily have any correlation to the number of girls they liked or didn't. Your daughter might have been liked by every chapter and adored by several, but there just wasn't room on the list for her. There's no consolation there because top of the cut list feels exactly the same as the bottom, but don't assume the sorority women are a bunch of meanies who didn't appreciate your daughter's greatness. They have to make some very difficult choices through this process.