[Mom64]

She is not bitter at all, just disappointed. I think that asking all these PNMs to give it a shot is asking more of them than of the houses. Most of the houses didn't give them a shot.

And while you criticize a rushee who has met maybe 10% of the chapter for making a conclusion, why can no one admit that having only 10% of their chapter making a conclusion about a rushee any different. And all of these sororities who do not invite certain PNMs back, isn't it because they feel they are not the right fit or not good enough for them,why do the PNMs get criticized for feeling this way about certain houses?

Again, no she is not bitter, she is a bit anxious about who she will live with next year, the changes in her social life, etc. but she is a strong, smart young woman who will do quite well with or without the sorority membership.