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Old 01-19-2014, 04:31 PM
stbemtpynest stbemtpynest is offline
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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle View Post
Quote: And to the sorority where the Active said "we really hope you will consider us" and then didn't ask her back, that bothers me - why would they say that when they don't intend to consider you?"

I don't feel qualified to speak to your other concerns, but as to this - the active may very well have been very enthusiastic about your daughter, but the chapter as a whole didn't share her opinion. Chapters always have to cut girls they may wish to consider, but the numbers simply mean they have to cut.
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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06 View Post
As for what was said to your daughter - keep in mind that only ONE sorority member said this to her. Even if that one sister LOVED your daughter, I can almost guarantee that she's not the only one with a say in who is chosen for membership.
Very good point, thanks! I will share this with my daughter.