[SWTXBelle]

Quote: And to the sorority where the Active said "we really hope you will consider us" and then didn't ask her back, that bothers me - why would they say that when they don't intend to consider you?"


I don't feel qualified to speak to your other concerns, but as to this - the active may very well have been very enthusiastic about your daughter, but the chapter as a whole didn't share her opinion. Chapters always have to cut girls they may wish to consider, but the numbers simply mean they have to cut.

I hope your daughter has a happy outcome. The biggest question for her is - would she rather not be Greek at all rather than consider a sorority which she may not yet "feel a connection", but which believes her to be a good fit?

Good luck.