Since DST was mentioned....
TrueO, you were asked whether you had considered another sorority partly because you came here seeming to complain about AKA and seeming to want the AKAs to explain (or even justify) their sorority and their membership to you. Your job is to research whichever sorority is of interest (scouring Internet videos does not suffice), attend events, and interact with real-life members off of the Internet. Good luck to you.
/lane swerve