I'll just jump in here and say you will likely not get any helpful feedback here. While us NPC women will give you every little thought and opinion about sorority membership and the ins and outs of the process, the NPHC women seem to really prefer restricting their assistance to women "in the flesh." I would try to find local AKAs, and it sounds like you have a great one available to you, to get your answers. But your questions seem like good ones to ask the women you meet at various AKA events.
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