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Everyone above has already said what I am thinking but, they have said it much more eloquently. I really think it is offensive this girl thinks of it as a "back-up" because I am always a Phi Mu (always) but, I wanted to also get involved in another great organization like Beta Sigma Phi. I didn't do it as a back-up. Many women in BSP, some on GC, are members of both an NPC and Beta Sigma Phi. We did it for another great avenue to meet great people. It's nothing like my NPC involvement but, I love it. I have met some great people. Don't look at it as a "back-up" or because you were being selfish, look at it as a great way to meet other charitable women who want to give to the sorority. I also earned a scholarship through Beta Sigma Phi as my sisters in BSP, just like my sisters in Phi Mu (where I also earned a scholarship), support me furthering my education. It's not better. It's not worse. It's different. I'm glad I am able to be a member of BOTH Phi Mu and Beta Sigma Phi.
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