|
IIRC you are a bit older. It's hard to talk to the young ones (did I really just type that? CALL A NURSING HOME...) But 18-21 year olds think they are invincible and that everything is an option. Which isn't a bad way to be, but idk if there's much you can say to counter that opinion.
FWIW the reason I responded to this thread in the first place is to say that, once these girls get past their NPC dreams, some of them can become good sisters. Some of them never get past the fact that your organization isn't the "same" as an NPC, but some do. We've had some great girls who went thru NPC several times and then came to us. One in particular is from my pledge class- we are still close friends- she was so terribly shy that "rush" just wasn't for her. She wanted to be part of a sisterhood badly, so when she joined she really put 100% into the group and got a lot out of it. The key is realizing that just because you have letters does not mean it's going to be an NPC experience.
JMO. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this, if you are inclined to share...
(I was in a service sorority btw)
__________________
* Winter * "Apart" of isn't the right term...it is " a_part_of"...
|