Justamom: Thanks for the hug
, I needed that. Im just so upset..Im even crying at work. I really love the son and we are still talking, so I dont think she would think that im trying to keep contact through her. I guess lifesaver is right...i cant apoligize for how i feel...i just wish she had never heard it...i can just imagine her listening to it over and over again talking about how stuck up i am for saying that "I am gold and deserve to be treated like it!" on her answeing machine. I can't even bear to think about it. I guess i will just send a nice handwritten short apology along the lines of..."I am so sorry for the message that was accidentally left on your machine. My machine is voice activated and sometimes dials the person i am talking about...I am going through some really tough times right now and i was just venting to my big sister. You know I think (the son) is the greatest guy in the world and I am really sorry for some of the things said. Love, me"
What do you think? Thanks again for all your advice.
PS- my phone was in my purse when it happened. The voice activation button that you need to hold down is on the side of the phone and probably pressed up against something in my purse...and when i said his name...it dialed. Thats how it can happen.