[CarolinaDG]

Oh, yeah, I think that if it's the huge block letters on a sweatshirt or something, then you shouldn't be able to wear that... unless you're lavaliered. Part of being lavaliered is saying that the person's special enough to wear the fraternity's letters. And, let's face it, if my sister (who is married to a Pi Kapp) were walking around with a sweatshirt with the big block Pi Kappa Phi letters on it, then people would know that she's not actually IN the fraternity, she's just seriously involved with someone who is. I've never seen her do that, anyway, I just see her with the bid day shirts on and stuff.