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Old 11-23-2013, 09:33 PM
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Sometimes you get paired with a less than stellar big. I spent all of 15 minutes with mine on big reveal night and she gave me a crappy stuffed animal/monster thing that was neither our mascot nor our colors. Then she dropped me off at my dorm while all my pledge sisters went out with their bigs. I may have seen her at a couple of formal meetings in the years after. That was the extent of my relationship with my big. Perhaps yours dropped the ball. Don't let that interfere with your perception of your sorority. For a long time, I thought there was something wrong with me. Nope, she just shouldn't have taken a little. Ever.

If you have a good relationship with your big, then don't sweat it. Money may be tight for her right now or there may be another reason she hasn't gotten one for you yet.
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