@dubaisis
Man you're right, I totally didn't think bout sorority costs! I've been saving money for awhile (having a job really helps so I'm lucky), and my hope is that I can set aside some to pay for it. My mom is helping me out with college stuff and I'm gonna have her look into some scholarship and financial aid with me. She didn't think I'd be able to get much aid but I think it can't hurt to at least try. Any little bit helps in this day and age =\
anyway, I'm definitely still keeping the dream alive! I'll do everything I can to try and make it happen as much as possible. But I'm also gonna really be realistic and do what I can afford.
thank you for replying!