Hugs to you, sweet lady.
Sometimes the best thing you can do for everyone is to let
them help
you for a change. Give them a chance to earn some stars for their crowns in heaven.
Take a rest from sorority, and give another alum the chance to step up and develop her skills. The wonderful thing about sorority is that it is always there when you are ready to return.
Meanwhile, your family and your sweet little daughter need you right now. Is there anything better than being loved and needed?
Blessings to you and yours.