[DubaiSis]

I think it's very realistic to worry about being shunned based on her sexual orientation. Gay people are still ostracized, bullied and physically abused based on that one single factor every day in America. I think in real life she would be welcomed (all other issues being equal) by just about any sorority. But to pretend that sexual orientation doesn't matter and has no place in concern about how/if she will fit into a chapter culture is not realistic. The trick is to find answers to her questions without making anyone uncomfortable. I do like the idea of something obvious but low-key on your social media. That way they will know in advance and it doesn't have to be brought up.