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While I agree that you shouldn't bring it up until a later round of recruitment (if you bring it up at all), I wouldn't TRY to bring it up. Let the conversation flow naturally. And know your audience. If you're talking to a sister and she seems uninterested, awkward, shy (yes, even sisters can have a hard time with conversation), then I would hold off. However, if you find yourself really connecting with the sister you're talking to, and the conversation "leads" that way, you MIGHT mention it.
And in my opinion, if the chapters are large enough - especially if they're over 100 members - I probably wouldn't mention it at all. In a chapter that big, you certainly won't be best friends with everyone, and you're bound to find at least a handful of girls (and probably more) who will be accepting and will become your good friends.
I think you're better off putting your faith in 100+ sisters than you are with one sister you talk to during Round 3 of recruitment who might find a way to keep you out of her chapter altogether, based on nothing more than your sexual orientation.
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Last edited by ASTalumna06; 10-23-2013 at 10:35 PM.
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