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Originally posted by prophet
 come on, you are just like the girls I dis-like! All you are wearing TKE letters for is to show his brothers, your as important and a little more. You have a relationship problem, don't you? Must, if that is how he shows you love; and must if you take it like that. Are you in a sorority? If so, you really have a problem if your screen name is after TKE and not your own sorority. If your not a sorority girl, which I could see possible, no wonder why you believe that to be true of a sweetheart. I could see why you have to floss your mans letters, and go around claiming a sweetheart like that, that you believe, "The meaning behind a sweetheart wearing the letters is that he is putting her up to the same (and even more) importance than the fraternity, she has become equal"(TKE209sweethrt).
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Ok, I have to say that I have a small problem with these statements. First of all, I am a sweetheart for my boyfriend's fraternity. And yes, I believe that the fact that he pinned me and recommended me for Sweetheart-and I can now wear his letters occasionally-means that I am of the same importance to him as his fraternity. And, no-we don't have a relationship problem. To say that anyone has a relationship problem, b/c they think this way is asinine. And yes-I am in a sorority, so it's not like I need his letters for validation-I have my own.
However, I know that every chapter does things differently-and yours obviously does (from what you have said in your posts)-and thats cool. But I don't think it's fair to say rude things to girls like-you think you mean things to the fraternity, but you don't, etc. Just because other chapters do things differently from yours doesn't make them any better or worse-they just do things differently.