like they said, u should keep an open mind. during my rush week I ruled out trisig just because of its reputation and what other people said, but now I wouldn't have it any other way. you just need to go through recruitment. also, if u do zero in on one house, u could not get it, its usually mutual selection and a lot of ppl don't get their first choice, so an open mind helps. and finally, no matter what sorority you get in, youre going to have the same amazing experience as everyone else, I promise