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I don't think I ever had one on one time with my Big. Maybe once or twice in my three years as an UG? It's not that big a deal honestly. As long as your Big is there to be a mentor, that is the important thing. My closest brother is a guy who joined after I left, yet I am closer to him then anybody else. That doesn't mean I don't respect my Big, we were just too different to become BFFs and that's perfectly ok.
Mind you, this is from the fraternity viewpoint.
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And he took a cup of coffee and gave thanks to God for it, saying, 'Each of you drink from it. This is my caffeine, which gives life.'
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