Roommate No. 1 is the junior who depledged at what I am going to assume is a competitive school. While she is free to try again, her chances of getting a bid are probably low. She should buff up her resume (grades, activities, volunteer work,) and be very friendly with girls in her classes and activities who are sorority members.
Roommate No. 2 should put her name on the list of interested girls at the greek life office at her campus. She, too, should freshen her resume and start chatting up girls in her classes.
As for you -- you might have a chance of delaying your initiation. Talk to your new member educator. However, I would not advise it. I agree with AOII Angel that seeking more involvement with your chapter would be beneficial. This is likely your only chance to be greek, so give it your very best effort. Emotional ties don't always happen quickly.
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