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You may not intend it this way, but saying things such as "I'm not too worried about receiving a bid, but I do hope they have a large number of women to choose from" and "what type of answers can I give so I stand out" project an attitude that can be interpreted several different ways...some not so appealing.
Are you worried that the other potential new members won't measure up?
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. One is great...the other gets in the way of true sisterhood. Colony bids are not slam dunks and the BEST answer is an honest one. Maybe I am overly sensitive because I know my organization is colonizing this weekend.
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